How To Be True To Your Self is a post to help you understand, overcome, and cultivate a true self lifestyle. It’s about transitioning which can lead you down two paths: one filled with chaos, overwhelm and fear. Or one marked by peace, enlightenment and rebirth. The choice is yours. And please be patient with yourself and know that we are often held back by the distractions of the outer world. It’s why being true to yourself is vital to living a life that you love!
Do something brave. Do something unexpected. Just do something. – Nina
Defining Your True Self
Your personality is your unique identity, shaping your reality. Meanwhile, the Universe embodies Divine Intelligence, encompassing all that is good, whole, loving, creative, and alive. Your true self acts as a bridge between these realms, perfectly tuned to receive Divinely inspired messages and guidance.
When you recognize how the ego can distort your true self, you can consciously let your spirit mind take charge. This shift ignites a powerful transformation, bringing a new level of spontaneity and freedom into your life. You’ll begin to see the insistent expectations of others, the relentless striving, and the competition for what they are—irrelevant distractions. In their place, you’ll find clarity, attract ideal clients and relationships, and feel a profound desire for goodness. Embrace this journey to your true self and watch your world transform!
For me the Divine is both internal and external, author Tosha Silver, Change Me Prayers.
A Comprehensive Guide To Help You Embark On A True Self, Lifestyle Journey:
Understanding your true Self is key to your happiness. Let’s take a deeper look:
Self-Reflection:
Take time for introspection. Ask yourself probing questions about your passions, values, strengths, and weaknesses. Reflect deeply on your personality type and how each cognition function shapes your reality. Remember it’s an inner journey so listen to the voice within – then examine, learn. grow.
Embrace Your Quirkiness:
Recognize that perfectionism is an illusion. Embracing your quirks is an integral part of being true to yourself. Your quirks add to your authenticity, make you unique, and add depth to your character.
Identify Your Core Values:
Define the values that matter most to you. These principles act as a compass, guiding your decisions and actions in life. And please don’t look for your values in the physical world; your personality type shapes your core values and beliefs. Study your personality and question your beliefs. Are they yours to own, or are they inherited, not able to serve your heart’s desires?
The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. – Pablo Picasso
Overcoming Obstacles to the True Self
Overcoming Fear of Judgment
When you let fear of judgment control you, you create a false self, hiding your true essence. People’s opinions are subjective, often driven by their own insecurities. Instead of letting their views color your world, embrace discernment. Being authentic might make you stand out, but that’s a sign of strength, not a flaw!
Breaking Free from Social Conditioning
Society imposes norms and expectations that often clash with your true self. Recognize these external pressures and question whether they align with your personal values. It takes courage to defy societal expectations, but embracing your true self is worth every step of the journey.
Embracing Self-Acceptance
To truly know and accept yourself, you must embrace every part of who you are, including your flaws and mistakes. Practice self-compassion, and forgive yourself for past decisions. Accepting yourself fully is the key to living a genuine and fulfilling life.
Let the beauty we love be what we do.– Rumi
Cultivating A True Self Lifestyle
Choose to be around people who accept and celebrate your true self. Heart-centered relationships foster an environment where your authentic self can thrive and grow. Here are some powerful tips for cultivating a true self lifestyle:
Communicate Sincerely
Share your thoughts, feelings, and opinions with honesty and respect. Let your true self shine through every conversation. Embrace “carefulness in conversation” to build deeper, more meaningful connections.
Set and Respect Boundaries
Clearly communicate your limits and uphold them. Setting boundaries safeguards your true self, nurtures genuine relationships, and maintains your emotional well-being.
Cultivate Heart-Centered Connections
Foster relationships that resonate with your values and support your personal growth. Embrace connections that uplift and inspire you, creating a nurturing space for your true self to flourish.
#journal prompt
One of my favorite practices is starting each day by asking my true self what I should focus on. Whether I’m out on a meditative walk or jotting down my thoughts in my journal, I make a point to reflect on this question: Divine Please Show Me. And you know what? The answer always comes through, sometimes immediately, and sometimes later.
I’d love to hear how this practice works for you. Drop a comment below or send me a message if you have any questions or
want to share your experience!
A Tip To Ignite a True Self Journey
When you’re feeling anxious or upset, it’s often a signal that you’re out of alignment with your true self. Take a moment to ask yourself: What’s triggering these emotions? Are they yours to explore, or are they reflecting something others need to learn from you?
On the flip side, when you’re experiencing peace, joy, and contentment, you’re likely in harmony with your true self. Make it a priority to surround yourself with people and situations that enhance these positive feelings. Embrace what brings you joy and tranquility—it’s a sign you’re on the right path!
Hope You Enjoyed How To Be True To Your True Self
Here’s the truth: living a true self lifestyle is a journey, not a final destination. It’s an ongoing commitment that demands self-awareness, bravery, and self-acceptance. Remember, being true to yourself isn’t about meeting others’ expectations—it’s about celebrating your own unique identity and boldly living it out. Embrace who you truly are, stay true to your path, and watch as your life transforms in extraordinary ways.
I’d love to hear how you embrace authenticity in your own life. Share your thoughts in the comments below!
Clarity Session
You know what they say: “Necessity is the mother of invention.” After years on the psychiatrist’s couch, countless masterclasses, and working with various coaches, I still felt like something was off. I was struggling—lost without my voice, my vision, and any clear solution in sight.
Then came my life tsunami. It was through embracing spirit-driven teachings and the psychological tools of Dr. Nix, Ph.D., that I uncovered my true calling: Spiritual Personality Typing (SPT). This emerging typology is a roadmap to your authentic self, bridging your soul (higher consciousness) with your personality (the soul in action). It’s perfect for business who desire to successfully weather these transformative times.
I offer bespoke 1:1 clarity sessions that just may be what you need to stop merely living your life and start creating the life of your dreams!”
“Working with Nina helped me remove the blind spots that were holding me back”, Judith Wilms, TedX, Author. A bespoke clarity session maybe just what you need to stop living your life and instead create the life of your dreams!
Book: Unpack Your Personality: Let Your Inner Guide Be Your Travel Guide
New here? Curious about travel personality typing? My debut book, Unpack Your Personality: Let Your Inner Guide Be Your Travel Guide, is your gateway to discovering your true self through travel. This book serves as the ultimate toolkit, introducing an exciting personality framework rooted in spirituality.
Inside, you’ll uncover how the joys of travel provide the perfect playground for self-awareness, complete with reflective questions that guide you on your journey. Explore top destinations for adventure, relaxation, and inspiration, along with practical tips for leveraging your personality preferences to create more fulfilling getaways. By harmonizing the insights of your personality with your inner guide (your higher self), you can elevate your travel experiences, embracing both worldly wonders and divine transcendence.
For me, travel has become a powerful way to embody my true self, whether I’m exploring distant lands or my own backyard. Ready to embark on this journey?
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About
Nina Zapala combines personality typing with spirituality in a vibrant, creative way that sets her apart. More importantly it helps you find your true self. She is renowned for making brands distinctive, unforgettable and successful. What she learned engaging with hundreds of women—whip-smart entrepreneurs, digital innovators and creatives, and corporate leaders is that we all long for meaning and purpose. Learning this and going through her own tsunami has fueled her passion to help women everywhere be true to themselves. Empowering women to discover their own magic and potential be it in business or learning to master artful aging; a time to build new dreams! .
*Please note the names of the personality types are taken from my debut book.
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