I’ve also been known to spiral out of control—freaking out over the thought of forgetting a dish, even though a variety of delicious plates were already on the table. Or I’ve visited a relative’s home, and being the people-pleaser I am, I’d eat things I normally wouldn’t. Even worse, I would force my son to do the same, all in the name of politeness. (It’s my extroverted feeling trait in its unhealthy pleasing mode.)
Where does it end?
Ten Simple Ways To Inspire Happy Travel
Realizing that I’m probably not the only person out there with holiday anxiety, I’ve developed a few ideas to decrease holiday stress and inspire happier outcomes.
Nothing earth-shattering, just applying common sense, imagination, and some old-fashioned fun.
1. Have you ever played the license plate game? It’s a fun way to score points by spotting license plate from different states while driving. Players earn points as they spot each license plate, and the person with the most points gets to choose the next place to stop and eat—or maybe claim an extra slice of pie.
2. Find yourself in an empty-nesting situation this Thanksgiving? No kids, no cooking—just the two of you, or maybe it’s just you. Tired of binge-watching Netflix? Consider booking an Airbnb or hotel and spending the weekend at the beach, in the mountains, or exploring a city you’ve always wanted to discover. Give yourself and your partner the gift of rediscovering one another.
3. Stay local, but get away. If you want to avoid the55.4 million people traveling over Thanksgiving weekend, skip the long road trip and stay close to home. Book a cozy cabin at a state park, or try that boutique hotel you’ve been eyeing. Explore locally—you’ll be surprised by what you discover.
4. Airports are chaotic during the holidays. Refocus and recenter yourself using free calming apps like Smiling Mind or Buddha Mantra. I also have a great balloon breathwork exercise in my debut book; Unpack Your Personality: Let Your Inner Guide Be Your Travel Guide. Take five or ten minutes for these simple spiritual practice they work wonders to help you regain a sense of calm.
5. Is your spouse’s family getting on your nerves? Plan a few excursions to create some space. Spend time exploring a nearby park, check out a Christmas tree lighting, or browse a local community market. Take a deep breath and enjoy the change of scenery.
6. Unplug the kids on a long road trip with some old-fashioned fun. This takes a bit of planning, but you can buy a joke book (either used on Amazon or from a local bookstore) and make a game out of telling jokes. Let each child pick a few of their favorites and take turns being the comedian. If your kids aren’t into telling jokes, pack a trivia card game, and again license plate game—it’s always a hit. See how many out-of-state plates you can spot in 15 minutes!
7. A long trip can be exhausting for everyone. After checking into your hotel and getting settled, lift everyone’s spirits with a few surprises. Start with a dessert party, followed by a movie night. Pick a few favorites and cozy up for the evening.
8. If you know Aunt Gertrude only serves certain dishes, why not coordinate a potluck dinner? Have each family member bring a dish, or cook with your kids once you arrive to ensure the meal meets your dietary needs. It’s a great alternative to complaining about the food. 😜
9. Visiting relatives can be stressful. Let’s face it; we’re all different. But with a little effort, you can create a sense of family connection. It’s Thanksgiving, after all, a time for gratitude. Get some construction paper, draw a leaf, and keep going until you have enough for everyone. Have each person write down something they’re grateful for on a leaf, then put them in a bowl. Before the feast, have everyone pick a leaf, read what’s written, and try to guess who wrote it. It’s easy, fun, and brings everyone together in gratitude. #blessings
10. Don’t let your fitness routine slip during the Thanksgiving holiday. Keep the kids involved, too! Have them unplug and head outdoors. Try ice skating, cycling, walking, beach volleyball, or hiking—Mother Nature offers endless opportunities for fun and fitness.
Holiday DeStress Tip
Give yourself something to look forward to when you return home. Make time to read that new book, listen to the podcast, or soak in the tube with your favorite candle lit. Or book a massage, make reservations at the new restaurant, or gift yourself an extra day off before you dive into December’s holiday madness.
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Updated 11.4.2023