What Actually Happens When Personality Embraces A Soul Focus

What Actually Happens When Personality Embraces a Soul Focus For most of our lives, personality has been presented to us as something fixed: a structure of preferences, indicators, and cognitive leanings that determine how we move through the world. The system became very popular through the Myers-Briggs® Type Indicator, built upon the personality archetypes of […]
What Are The Ultimate Tools For Soul Expression

What Are the Ultimate Tools for Soul Expression? If you listen closely to many spiritual and personal growth teachings, you’ll notice the same message repeated quietly but consistently: personality is ego, and healing often means outgrowing—or outsourcing—who you are. My seven-year tsunami and real-world experiences taught me that this idea requires deeper understanding. When we […]
How Going Gray Helped Me Finally Embrace My Authentic Self

How Going Gray Helped Me Finally Embrace My Authentic Self I was sitting in my stylist’s chair, three years into my divorce, still reeling from the unraveling of the life I thought I’d live forever. For those years, I’d been coloring my hair platinum blonde, covering every silver strand that dared to peek through. That day, my stylist whizzed by and casually said, “I’ll be with you in a minute—can’t have you going out into the world […]
How To Be True To Your True Self

How To Be True To Your Self In a world obsessed with “more” — more roles, more hustle, more appearances to keep up — being true to your Self can feel like swimming against the current. But make no mistake: it’s the most important swim you’ll ever take. Living from your true Self is not […]
New Year’s Resolutions Sparked By Personality Typing

New Year’s Resolutions Sparked By Your Sacred Personality Type Every December, I used to sit down—pen in hand, journal open, heart buzzing with good intentions. My resolutions list was long, linear, and laced with pressure. Lose the weight. Write the book. Fix this. Change that. Be more, do more. I believed if I followed a […]
How to Discover Your Powerful True Self and Stop Pleasing!

How to discover your powerful true self and stop pleasing others? This unraveling usually entails shadow work, recognizing where pleasing started, but it can be erased over time. You still slip back into pleasing, but you recognize it faster and recover more quickly, and that alone is evidence of growth. Following our inner guidance […]
