How can you love being an extrovert and truly own your truth? Start by embracing the powerful energy you radiate. It’s all about energy flow. When you operate from your authentic self, you have the power to transform cultures, spark movements, and achieve great things—think of icons like Reese Witherspoon, Michelle Obama, and Taylor Swift.
Here’s something you might not know about me: I’m an ENTP, the Curious type. I live at the intersection of introversion (49%) and extroversion (51%). This balance is central to my truth, passion, and purpose.
I believe we co-create with the Divine before we are born, selecting personalities that best support our soul’s journey in this lifetime. My mission is to help you view Myers-Briggs through a spiritual lens, understanding the unique energy flow of both introverts and extroverts.
Your persona is perfectly aligned with your soul mission, just as mine is with mine. Embrace it fully and watch as your truth empowers you to achieve extraordinary things!
Extra Resources: Love Being Extrovert and Own Your Truth
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Your Personality Is Attached to Your Soul’s Evolution
My passion and purpose are to help you rethink personality typing through a spiritual lens. Divine intelligence knew I needed to experience both introverted and extroverted behaviors to fulfill my mission. My personality aligns perfectly with my soul’s intentions, empowering me to step fully into my power, passion, and purpose.
And please, just because I am an extrovert doesn’t mean I fully grasp what your world is like. Your experiences are shaped by your unique childhood stories, life challenges, and relationships—both loving and difficult. Even if I tried, I couldn’t truly imagine your world without falling into stereotypes or oversimplifications. However, I do understand general patterns of behavior, and that’s a valuable insight.
What I do know is that we are all created from a Divine light of love. As spiritual wisdom teaches us, we are “spiritual beings having a human experience.” Let’s embrace that truth together and discover the depth of our shared journey. Understand, your extroverted traits are uniquely positioned to help your soul evolve – to ignite your true calling.
Carl Jung saw extroverts’ focus as outwardly directed, leading them to act more extensively. –– Carl Jung, psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, and the founder of analytical psychology.
How to Love Being an Extrovert and Own Your Truth
So, how do you, as an extrovert, truly own your truth? It starts with observing and being aware of your energy. When you’re energized and vibrant from an outer world experience, you’re in truth-based energy. It feels right and makes you come alive. On the other hand, if your energy feels hesitant and off, you’re moving into fear-based energy.
Once you understand your true self, you’ll become clear-headed, confident, and courageous. No one can shake your confidence because you own your greatness. You’re not just playing the game; you’re playing to win. Embrace your truth and let your energy shine!
Love Your Extrovertedness: It’s Electric Because It’s Truthful!
You know that electric feeling when you step into your truth? It’s because you’ve aligned with your true self and soul essence. You’re now channeling Divinely inspired messages and actions into your reality. This magical union between your soul and fearless personality creates a seamless flow in your world. You instinctively know the right words to say, when to pivot, and how to make decisions that lead to extraordinary outcomes. With this understanding, you release judgment and embrace the truth that we’re all Divinely guided to evolve on this earth. Celebrate your electric extrovertedness—it’s your most truthful and powerful self!
Let’s Stop Stereotyping Extroverts. –– Nina Zapala, author: Unpack Your Personality – my debut book about self-understanding, choosing your reality and living a life you love!
Rise Above Stereotyping: Embrace Your Extroversion and Love Who You Are
I recently took an online quiz from a popular blogger to determine if I was an introvert or an extrovert. The quiz labeled me an introvert, which didn’t surprise me given that I’m almost evenly split. However, what did surprise me was the claim that “introverts prefer deeper relationships while extroverts prefer more superficial ones.”
WHAT?!
I found that statement both insulting and completely off the mark. While extroverts may initially engage with a wide range of people due to their natural tendencies, they too seek deep and meaningful relationships as they grow and mature. Stereotyping half of the population is simply unfair and misguided.
Our society is rife with polarizing issues—politics, gender, race, and even personality typing. The memes and stereotypes about personality types can be hurtful and misleading, causing unnecessary self-doubt.
Here’s the truth: everyone is created with Divine intelligence, possessing a unique personality and soul with a mission to evolve. People will come and go in your life, each playing a role in your soul’s journey, whether that interaction is positive or challenging. For extroverts, striking up conversations and engaging with others is a natural energy flow. So, rise above the stereotypes and celebrate your extroversion. Embrace who you are with confidence and joy!
As an extrovert, you look at the world in these ways: thoughtfully, aware of the world, while reflecting on what it all means, with the ability to express it. What a beautiful gift. – Nina Zapala, Founder, Spiritual Personality Typing.®
Welcome the External World: It’s an Energy Thing
You have a natural talent for leading, whether it’s a small group, a community, or a larger collective. In these chaotic times, you, as an extrovert, often feel less overwhelmed. Why? Because you’re deeply connected to the world around you. You thrive in the busyness and vibrant interactions that the physical world offers. You embrace the energy of engagement and action, finding your place and purpose in the midst of it all.
Your abundant magnetic energy lives in the possibility of changing worlds, showing up for others, and sharing how beautiful the world is. It’s one of your greatest SUPERPOWERS. ––An excerpt from the upcoming book: 16 Personalities Unpacked: Myers-Briggs Taken An Enlightened Vacation, author Nina Zapala
How to Love Being an Extrovert While Owning Your Truth
Have I sparked your belief that embracing your truth as an extrovert can truly transform your world? Here are some real-world extroverts who’ve discovered their truth and now light up the world with their incredible presence:
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Express Types, ENFP: Your creativity and humor enrich the world, making it a better place. Think Ellen DeGeneres and J.J. Abrams, who infuse their unique charm into everything they do.
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Curious Types, ENTP: With your unconventional creativity and playful spirit, you’re always innovating. Amy Poehler and Hugh Grant showcase their wacky, inventive brilliance.
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Harmonious Types, ENFJ: You see the world through a lens of justice and humanitarianism, using your persuasive skills for positive change. Bono, Reese Witherspoon, and Rashida Jones embody this beautiful vision.
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Assured Types, ENTJ: You show us how to make a big impact with your larger-than-life personality. Adele, Katharine Hepburn, and Tea Leoni demonstrate how powerful confidence can be.
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Playful Types, ESFP: Your passion and originality bring fun and flair to the world. Katy Perry, Pink, and Nicki Minaj embody this vibrant energy with their captivating presence.
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Spirited Types, ESTP: Your determined, adventurous spirit injects excitement into life. Anna Wintour, Angelina Jolie, and Taylor Swift exemplify how fearless pursuit of freedom can inspire others.
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Attentive Types, ESFJ: As natural nurturers, you offer compassion and understanding with an open heart. Penelope Cruz, Jennifer Garner, and Anne Hathaway show how deeply caring souls can make a difference.
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Dutiful Types, ESTJ: You uphold tradition and build strong communities with gratitude and dedication. Condoleezza Rice, Michelle Obama, Courteney Cox, and Lucy Liu remind us of the importance of commitment and honor.
Embrace your extroverted nature and let your truth shine brightly—your impact can be extraordinary!
I attract a crowd, not because I’m an extrovert or I’m over the top or I’m oozing with charisma. It’s because I care. – Gary Vaynerchuk
#JournalPrompt
-Breathe deeply and envision what your world would look like if you would live more freely; as you breathe in, commit to taking one baby step today without judging, and as you exhale, let it go to reveal what vision arises. Repeat this throughout the day. It’s a great daily meditation, journal, or creative prompt.
An additional resource:
- Another blog of interest on being true to yourself – click here to read more.
Did you Enjoy: How to Love Being an Extrovert Own Your Truth
I hope you found How to Love Being an Extrovert and Own Your Truth inspiring. If you’ve realized that you are more than just an extrovert—considering your unique personality, life experiences, societal conditioning, and childhood influences—then you understand that your extroverted nature is exactly what your spirit-fed self needs to fulfill its earthly mission. Embrace your extroverted qualities; they are integral to achieving your soul’s purpose.
The Book
Unlock Your True Potential with My Debut Book: Unpack Your Personality: Let Your Inner Guide Be Your Travel Guide
Are you ready to transform your life and discover the key to living a life you truly love? My debut book, Unpack Your Personality: Let Your Inner Guide Be Your Travel Guide, is your essential first step toward self-discovery and empowerment.
This isn’t just any self-help book—it’s a powerful guide designed to help you delve deep into your personality, understand your unique strengths, and harness that knowledge to shape the life of your dreams. Imagine having a roadmap that leads directly to your true self, guiding you to make choices that align with your deepest desires and aspirations.
By exploring the insights in this book, you’ll uncover the tools and strategies needed to unlock your full potential. Whether you’re seeking to build confidence, pursue your passions, or simply create a more fulfilling life, Unpack Your Personality will empower you to take control of your journey and craft the reality you’ve always wanted.
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Discover Spiritual Personality Typing ™️
I’m offering a pioneering and revolutionary approach to personality assessment with a unique blend of Myers-Briggs® personality typing and spiritual insight. This innovative personality paradigm emerged from my own journey through life’s challenges and deep conversations with countless women who have grappled with feelings of being lost, purposeless, and disconnected from their true selves.
Through her personal experiences and profound understanding, my mission is to help women everywhere gain a deep understanding of their true selves—the essence of who they really are. To empower women everywhere to embrace their unique, divine essence, irrespective of age, relationship status, or social standing.
It’s a a modern day personality theory that is both powerful and liberating helping you recognize, and pursue your true calling with confidence – unshackled from societal expectations. Embrace your authentic self and pursue your dreams with newfound clarity and purpose.
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Are you navigating a career change, starting anew or exploring what’s next for this season of life? Discover the power of your unique feminine archetype with my exclusive guide, based on a modern Myers-Briggs® framework. To get your free ebook and gain insights tailored just for you, simply send me a message with “feminine archetype.” Don’t miss this chance to align with your true self and take confident strides into your new direction!
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It’s Time to Discover Spiritual Personality Typing ™️ — Nina Zapala, a Curious Type, ENTP.
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