For women in a season of change—ready to understand who they really are and what the next chapter holds.

I didn’t set out to create a new paradigm in spiritual psychology—it found me in the midst of my own midlife tsunami.”

I created Spiritual Personality Typing℠ out of necessity. It became a new way of understanding self-identity, possibility, and what it really means to move through life’s transitions.

What if your personality is how your soul expresses itself—so you can live soul-led, not ego-fed? This perspective fills the gap that external methods can’t, helping you align with who you truly are: a spiritual being having a human experience.

my story

The Reckoning

I was standing onstage, about to receive the travel industry’s version of an Oscar, when a quiet voice inside asked, “Is this what you want?” The answer was an immediate: No.

The Unraveling

What followed was a fast unraveling — marriage, career, home, health, and savings all gone within months. It was a tsunami–not a punishment. An invitation to stop living on autopilot.

I returned to what I knew: personality, spirituality, pattern recognition, travel, and new experiences of navigating a midlife season of change. It’s when things became clear — traditional personality typing explains logic, but the soul is where truth lives. Our traits aren’t flaws or accidents; they’re the specific tools the soul chose for this lifetime.

The Realization

That realization became Spiritual Personality Typing℠ —  a kind of alchemy that elevates and expands the realms of logic and spirit. Its goal, is to bring your humanness into a ripening of the senses while the soul brings deep meaning, presence and purpose.

It’s the premise for all of my books. My new book Walk n’ Wonder is due to release fall of 2026!

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WORK WITH ME

Awakening Calls · Walk n’ Wonder · Mentorship · Travel Archetype Identity

Many women in midlife frequently find themselves at a crossroads where their old stories no longer resonate, yet a new story has yet to emerge.

If you’re wondering, “Who am I? How did I get here?” my work supports you using Spiritual Personality Typing℠, the exact method I developed to navigate my own midlife moment. It helps you understand who you are now, why the past no longer fits, and how to move forward while being true to yourself.

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BOOKS

Companions On Your Journey

UNPACK YOUR PERSONALITY: LET YOUR INNER GUIDE BE YOUR TRAVEL GUIDE

My debut book, Unpack Your Personality, illuminates how your personality interacts with a place, a culture, and people. It shifts the landscape of travel to align with your true self to enrich worldly pleasures while exploring the inner world of the soul.

It’s a vibrant alternative to classic “checklist” travel. It’s intentional, offering ease in decision-making, and it shapes ultra-personal travel versus the one-size-fits-all tourism escape.

WALK N’ WONDER: A NEW AWAKENING AT MIDLIFE

Reading Walk n’ Wonder walks you back to your true self—feeling connected, clear and confident. I offer a repeatable daily pathway so you never lose site of yourself again. Here’s what you’ll learn:

Your personality type → has a walking style

Each trait → becomes a reflection prompt

Your daily walk → is the micro transformation

You begin to identity your spiritual traits that lead to best outcomes, decisions and fresh starts.  When you finish a walk you’ll know “Something shifted in me—and I now know why”?

COMING FALL 2026

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travel Soulfully

where Earthly Pleasures Mingle With spiritual resonance

Every traveler has a natural rhythm. Every place storied, with a dynamic, soulful energy, that waiting to be explored.

Through Spiritual Personality Typing℠, I help individuals reflect and travel intentionally. While my work with hospitality partners enables them to create deeply personalized travel experiences for their guests. This is travel designed to feel meaningful, memorable, and true. It’s what I do to help brands communicate “personality of place